November 2010
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November 2010Monthly Archive Three WaysThis is, obviously, a picture of pine cones in winter. Believe it or this blog is not about Christmas decorations. It is about self-evaluation of your home school. This is a difficult task, when you are so closely connected to one another in the family. I remember a Mom who home schooled, telling me, “I can tell if my children know their spelling words. It is harder to tell if they understand that we are called to give to others.” I believe the issue might be that the adults involved in home school are constantly in the scheduling mode. It takes a lot of time to schedule lessons in all subjects, physical education with a co-op or at the YMCA and get to all the outside activities. This constant stream of scheduling may not allow for enough time to stand back and evaluate the your child’s faith growth. I would suggest three ways you can evaluate your child’s faith growth. First, listen to language. Spend one day writing down language that a child is using that relates to faith. You may hear words you expect, like “God”. Or you may hear words you do not expect, like “renewing”. Just write down the words and evaluate later. Next, have children journal about faith. You may use journaling for other subjects, but I think daily growth in the area of faith is best seen through words and actions. You may want to do small pictures as motivators for faith. Try to have the pictures be everyday situations. I like to take full sheet white labels on spiral notebooks for faith journals. You can print the child’s name in word art and print it on the computer. When stuck on the front of a spiral notebook, the journals immediately become a faith journal you can read to see what your child is thinking about faith. Lastly, to evaluate a child’s faith growth, use a check list that has these words across the top. “Love your neighbor”, “loves self as created being”, “self initiates faith practices” (prayer, holy reading, ritual etc.) “Handles difficult situations with the help of God.” Put a check when you see these behaviors. This will help you understand how your child’s faith growth is happening daily. These three will help you evaluate what they say, what they see and how they feel in the area of faith growth. No worksheets needed! Just life and listening. 0 comments Tuesday 30 Nov 2010 | admin | Homeschool faith Winter SeedsEach year, in faith communities, in homes, in home schools, in communities, there happens a unique opportunity for winter seeding. It is called THE CHRISTMAS/HOLIDAY PROGRAM/PAGEANT/. This event makes talented and competent people quake in their shoes. It brings busyness into already busy families. It connects the past to the present and to the future. It causes arguments, discernment and evaluation. After all, the birth of Christ is pivotal for the world. Even if you are not Christian, you know that Christ changed life for everyone: those that believe and those that did not believe. There are several things that have always interested me about the Christmas story in the New Testament. 1. First of all, Jesus was obviously Jewish. We forget that sometimes. This picture looks like dirty snow. But it is really tree seeds blown on top of the snow during wind. They aren’t pretty but they are a way for winter seeds to be planted. They slowly shift down toward the grass at the end of winter and land on the ground with lots of melted snow. A little sun and plants can grow. I believe that THE CHRISTMAS/HOLIDAY PROGRAM/PAGEANT can be a place for seeds to be planted. It seems an unlikely place but sometimes a family that is unseen the rest of the year decides to be involved in this event. Seeds are planted for life long faith. So endure crabby adults, sick children, unlearned lines, torn costumes and plant some winter seeds. 0 comments Monday 29 Nov 2010 | admin | Faith Community Family BlossomsDid you know that snow has blossoms? Can you guess what these blossoms are? These are from my family, or at least the extended family. These snow blossoms remind me that even when green is not showing beauty can blossom. The blooms of family are both unexpected and unplanned. So you may have done a turkey or a ham in the past few days. You may have eaten alone or with others. Think for a moment about an unexpected blossom. Maybe an unexpected smile or thank you or a new taste blossomed these past few days. Did you learn something new or see something different? These too, can be unexpected blossoms. I got to serve outside my comfort zone. We sat on borrowed chairs that were two different levels. We used plastic cups for wine. We ate store pies when I love to cook pies. And yet, the blossoms were everywhere. In my nephew’s face when he figured out I already knew he was watching the football game in the mirror while we ate, I saw a blossom. In my Dad’s face as he carefully chose each home cooked food; a blossom. In our guest’s easy smile and caring conversation, I saw a blossom. The thing about seeing blossoms in busy times is that we have to take the time to look for them. So take a moment and think about the blossoms of time with those we love. Did you guess, yet? Okay the blossoms in the snow are my dog’s footprints. These blossoms are definitely made by a treasured family member, our dog. God is present in all blossoms. 0 comments Sunday 28 Nov 2010 | admin | Family Holiday Thoughts
0 comments Thursday 25 Nov 2010 | admin | Faith Community, Family, Grandparenting, Homeschool faith, Quotes, Resources The Sun ShinesI’ve talked before about how much I love the mornings when the three oldest grand kids run up the stairs to my room to jump in bed with me. We have such fun talking and laughing before the “dirt” of the day comes. You know, the dirty dishes, dirty clothes, toys in the middle of the room. First thing in the morning I NEVER remember all the dirt that seems to appear. Just like when the sun shines in the winter, you forget the much that will be here when it melts. This picture was taken early in the morning over new snow. The sun is brightest when we allow God to reset our thinking every morning. Even if the sun doesn’t shine it certainly comes up and with our ability to allow yesterday to fall away. When you are with grand kids in the next few days, reset your thoughts each morning so that the sun shines through God into your life. 0 comments Wednesday 24 Nov 2010 | admin | Grandparenting The Shape of November
The shape of home school starts to change a little in November, too. With the holidays, home school can take basic subjects and build on them with the holiday decorating, art appreciation, historical facts and family times. Let’s talk about the turkey. Home school can study the natural science of turkey growth while smelling a turkey roasting. Turkey soup can be a cooking lesson. That is served before Thanksgiving. Make your own turkey broth by boiling just the turkey leg. The bone structure of a turkey leg is a good lesson when you are taking the meat off the turkey leg for soup. Add lessons of hospitality by serving soup to a neighbor. Social justice studies around turkey production would be interesting to study. Layer and layer of new study add to home school curriculum. Change the shape of learning in November and see where God leads you. 0 comments Tuesday 23 Nov 2010 | admin | Homeschool faith Re-Imagining Moment-by-momentRe-imagining the church is a constant state of being. People are the basis of the formal church or what we call religious communities. And people are the most creative beauties around. People are a constant stream of evaluation, adaptation and change. These clouds over the Faith Garden, help remind me that I am created in the image of God. I am a created being and thus am Being created moment by moment. These clouds came after a storm and rainbow. But no rain every hit the Faith Garden. I can imagine that it is dusk or dawn and yet, it’s in the middle of the day. If you look at this picture and breathe deeply, you can imagine a million possibilities. When we work in faith communities we need to celebrate the gifts of the people as create by God. It is not about what we do but what God does through us. There are not enough gift assessments in the world to describe all the gifts of God and the people of God. YOU are a gift from God to the world. Celebrate all your gifts from God, today. 0 comments Monday 22 Nov 2010 | admin | Faith Community The Last Leaf -Time to RestSeldom do we get to see the last leaf on a tree. We are so intent in raking all the ones that fell or seeing multiple buds in the spring or watching an entire tree. To see the last leaf is a holy experience. The last leaf signals change. A change so subtle, that we often miss seeing it. The last leaf indicates that the tree has finished its growth. Colder temperatures and less sun move the tree into a dormant place where it rests. Growth is good, but so is rest. What are the things in your family that you need to stay attentive to in order to know when rest is needed? We are more likely to see the big issues like illness and temper tantrums (both child and adult) that indicate rest is needed. But what about little things like the last leaf? Try spending a few holy moments each day evaluating whole self. What are the aches and pains? Have you bitten your nails down? Are you unable to finish a book? Do you keep spilling things? These little indicators that point you toward changes, both good and bad. It might be time for rest. 0 comments Sunday 21 Nov 2010 | admin | Family Teaching ToleranceOne of my all time favorite resources is called Teaching Tolerance. Teaching Tolerance is published four times a year by the Southern Poverty Law Center. (www.teachingtolerance.org) This magazine never misses a way to teach children, families, schools and churches about bullying, diversity or acceptance. 0 comments Friday 19 Nov 2010 | admin | Resources Seeing God in Others
Children’s books help me to understand life better. Actually children help remind me to look at life and stop to think. But in this story I learned from a turtle-a very Old Turtle. Douglas Wood published the book Old Turtle in 1992. It’s been 18 years and if it had been 1800 years it would still be a relevant book. Think about the words. Not just long time, but long and lonesome and scary time. These words explain our times now just as well as 1992. Today it is scary. I think sometimes these long, lonesome, scary times teach us to see God in one another. Yet, when we live from a place of fear, we might also be afraid to see God. Take the time to be attentive to life. If your world is covered in snow like mine, imagine the dormant seeds waiting for spring, the melting snow refilling the aquifer or the cold that gives the trees rest from growing. Listen and hear… listen and hear. 0 comments Thursday 18 Nov 2010 | admin | Quotes
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